I love superhero series as much as the next person but I'm honestly getting sick of the whole "You didn't tell me you were a superhero so I am angry/disappointed/ hate you now" plot line.
Personally, if I found out my friend was a superhero I'd be like
"EPIC. SIGN ME UP!"
It happened in Arrow, now it's happening in The Flash - DC, would you chill with that. Please.
It's so annoying - arrogant. Like, they lied to protect you, cause, you are an ordinary human being who would probably die in five seconds against metahumans/criminals and maybe, just maybe, the superhero in question was considering your safety and you know, the continuation of your life. It's not rocket science.